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18May

Are Your Clothes Making you Look Bigger?

May 18, 2021 Lots of Luxe

Tips & Tricks to Strategically Camouflage Flaws While Flaunting Your Best Assets

Want to learn the tips and tricks to accentuate your best assets and camouflage your flaws? The answer often lies with the clothes you choose.

Every woman’s body is unique. With that said, we all have our favorite and least favorite parts of our bodies. For confidence’s sake, we can learn exactly how to showcase the features of our bodies that we love and hide anything that we’d rather not. As always, it’s not about hating those parts we’d love to change but simply embracing them and accentuating the positives.

You may be wearing clothes that make you look bigger, hide your silhouette, or mask your favorite features. The great news is that we can slim down or make our bodies look fabulous within a matter of minutes with the right outfit.

Here are the top culprits for not looking your best.

Ill-Fitting Undergarments

Your bra, underwear, and shapewear are your foundation for looking good. If they don’t fit right (either too big or too small), even perfectly fitting clothes won’t look flattering. Too tight bras can cause bulges. Improperly fitting underwear can produce panty lines that make your rear look unfavorable. If shapewear doesn’t fit correctly, its purpose is no longer to your advantage. Always make sure you have the proper fit when it comes to undergarments. Getting professional fittings is a must to allow your best silhouette to shine through. What’s more, having underwear that fits right is just more comfortable!

Too Tight Clothes

This one is a given but let me elaborate. Often, tight-fitting clothes are fashionable, so we choose them based on their trendiness (read: skinny jeans). But we should be selecting clothes based on how good they make us feel and look rather than following the trends.

Clothes that are too tight can make us look larger. If you find yourself squeezing into anything, re-think it! Always choose clothes that fit you comfortably, even if it means going up a size. When you wear clothes that fit well, you won’t have to worry about unflattering angles.

Oversized Garments

On the flip side, wearing that oversized t-shirt, tunic, or jersey-style shirt with leggings is not doing your figure any favors. We probably feel more comfortable in large clothing, but if you want to flatter your figure, this is not the way to do it. This rule also applies to puffer jackets, chunky sweaters, and other pieces of clothing that add volume. If you want to look smaller, focus on well-fitting garments. If the sole goal is comfort, by all means, wear the oversized shirt!

Prints and Patterns

You’ve probably heard wearing horizontal stripes adds width to your figure. But what about other patterns? Many other prints can indeed add dimension and can create the illusion of a bulkier body. The two biggest culprits that make bodies noticeably fuller are large prints and horizontal stripes. If you love either of these prints, feel free to wear them, regardless. But if you are consciously trying to appear smaller, they are not your friend. Instead, try vertical stripes or small prints.

Chunky Footwear

Maybe you haven’t thought about how specific shoes can be unflattering to your figure, but it’s true. If you want to create the illusion of longer, slimmer legs, opt for sleeker, thinner, pointed-toe shoes. Wearing clunky heels and platforms adds more bottom heaviness and can make the legs appear shorter.

Need a Second Opinion?

If clothing fit is the last thing you have time for, you are not alone. Many women desire to look better, but their wishes fall to the wayside while taking care of everyone else. Finding a tailor, personal stylist, or wardrobe consultant takes the time and guesswork out of it so you can look your best while living your busy life.

Sometimes the best way to make sure your outfits are complementary to your figure is to ask a professional. Getting an unbiased, qualified expert to help you figure out what will make you look slimmer and chicer is just the ticket.

I’m here if you need me! Melrose

07Apr

Spring 2021 Skirt Trends

April 7, 2021 Lots of Luxe

How do you feel about skirts? Some women absolutely love them, and some women are skeptical about how they look in skirts. I’m here to bring skirt skeptics around to trying this trend! With the many skirts on deck this spring, you’re bound to find one style you love wearing.

There are so many reasons to invite more skirts into your daily wardrobe repertoire. Skirts are flattering, comfortable, and easy. Skirts can transform your look, so if you don’t usually wear them, you’re going to turn some heads when you start!

For skirt lovers, it’s time to rejoice as this season brings in your favorite wardrobe staple to the forefront of fashion.

Skirts can range from flowy to flirtatious to totally professional. There is a style that’s waiting for you to try, so without further ado, let’s look at this season’s skirt trends.

Belted Skirts

Belted skirts are worn at the natural waistline to cinch a naturally narrow waist, or to create the illusion of a whittled waist. There are many different kinds of belted skirts, from wide belts to skinny belts. Tuck in a blouse or wear a bodysuit if you want a slimmer silhouette with your belted skirt. Choose a neutral, breezy belted skirt that is versatile enough to pair with different tops and footwear all the way through the summer.

Pleated Midi Skirts

Midi skirts are timeless and can be worn in the office or on vacation, as they truly look stunning in any setting. Pleated skirts have made a major comeback this season. These skirts are versatile and flattering for everybody. Pleated skirts give an outfit texture and flair, so pair with simple top like a crisp white blouse or a crewneck sweater. Check out this elegant, floral pleated skirt perfect for any spring occasion.

Maxi Skirts

Maxi skirts are the well-known super comfortable skirt that can be worn throughout spring, summer, and even into the warm fall days. The greatest thing about maxi skirts is how flowy and put-together they look while you stay totally cool and comfortable. Depending on the style and fabric, maxi skirts can be worn to the office, the beach, and anywhere in between. Wear a chic maxi skirt with your choice of a tucked-in blouse, t-shirt, denim jacket, tank, or a top knotted on the side at the waist.

Leather Skirts

Ready to make a retro statement? Investing in a great leather skirt will be a trend you can wear this spring and again in the fall. If you love a good leather statement piece, try a skirt for a classic, yet trendy way to wear leather. Leather can be paired with other fabrics like silk, denim, sweaters, or basic tees, making this statement piece surprisingly versatile. Try this belted leather pencil skirt with a statement blouse.

Wrap Skirts

A stylish comeback from the 1960s and early 70s is the wrap skirt. Decades ago, wrap skirts were typically long, at least ankle-length, but today, wrap skirts come in a variety of styles and lengths so you can find the one that’s best for you. Wear a wrap skirt at the waist, and you can also adjust the waist and hip sizes allowing for a comfy, customized fit. Try an asymmetrical A-line wrap skirt with a button-down shirt for the office or pair with a floral blouse and denim jacket for a day out.

Ask Melrose: What Kind of Skirt Looks Best on Me?

There is a skirt (or many) for every body type. Looking your best doesn’t mean being perfect, but finding the styles that are perfect for you. Shopping and deciphering can be difficult, especially if you aren’t sure what you’re looking for.

That’s where a personal stylist comes in to do all the work for you. I know you’re a busy woman and the last thing you have to worry about is shopping and choosing, so that’s why the women I work with leave that to me.

Get in touch to learn how you can have the wardrobe of your dreams, complete with this season’s best skirt looks, or whatever you choose!

Or, shop online to see more trending skirts at Carlisle or Etcetera.

16Mar

Ask Your Personal Stylist: How do I wear high-waisted pants?

March 16, 2021 Lots of Luxe

You’ve asked, I’m answering! High-waisted pants are incredibly comfortable — and stylish. Here’s how to wear them to flatter your body.

In the battle between high-waisted pants and low-rise pants, high-waisted pants are (thankfully) plentiful this year! Women tend to love high-waisted pants for their versatility, comfort, and their tendency to flatter figures.

This season, Carlisle and Etcetera are featuring several styles of high-waisted bottoms. Before you browse, read on to find out how to choose the perfect style and make these functional pants work for your lifestyle.

Who Can Wear High-Waisted Pants?

Most everyone can so give them a shot! High-waisted pants are universally flattering, so no matter what body shape you have, you can find a high-waisted pair of pants or jeans that look great on you. High-waisted pants disguise love handles and never create a muffin top, unlike low-rise denim that can leave you feeling less covered up. It is any wonder that high-waisted pants are in high demand this season?

Denim is always a staple, and it’s good to have several styles in your wardrobe. While many of us are living in leisurewear, why not trade in sweatpants for comfortable and figure-flattering high-waisted jeans?

High-waisted pants are a go-to look all year. By giving you a well-balanced and flattering silhouette, they will quickly become your new favorite pants for everyday wear.

How Can I Wear High-Waisted Pants?

First, you’ll want to wear your high-waisted pants nearest your natural waistline, at the narrowest part of your midriff. This will ensure a flattering fit. Second, ensure a proper hem length for your body. If you choose straight or flared high-waisted pants, look for hemlines that reach down to your toes. If you choose skinny high-waisted pants, the hem should sit right at the ankles.

High-waisted pants look best with a tucked-in top to not only show off the high-waisted style but to flatter your figure as well. Nearly any type of top will work well with high-waisted pants, with a few exceptions. Button-down blouses, long-sleeve tops, or tanks, basic t-shirts can be tucked into your high-waisted pants.

High-waisted pants come in a variety of styles from boyfriend jeans to tailored skinny pants. Some variations include wide-leg, straight-leg, or flares. Wearing high-waisted pants can go from laidback and comfortable at home to a chic going out look.

You can take your pick of heels, boots, sneakers, or sandals with your high-waisted pants. These pants are versatile enough to be paired with any kind of footwear.

What to Avoid

Overly frilly, blousy tops can be unflattering with high-waisted pants. Too much fabric can weigh you down or be too bulky and you’ll risk masking your shape. With the extra fabric of high-waisted pants, stick to more form-fitting tops that are easily tucked in or knotted to the side.

Bulky, short jackets are also not likely to flatter when wearing high-waisted pants, as they can create a boxy look by making the waist appear wider. What’s more, wearing high-waisted pants can help you achieve an hourglass silhouette, which will be hidden with a jacket that’s too big.

Melrose’s Favorite Picks

From left to right …

Illume — Champagne Satin Pants
Luxurious, comfortable, wide-leg, satin high-waisted pants that you will feel glamorous in.

Architect — European Suiting Pants
Versatile, classic fit ivory high-waisted pants with a slight stretch for total comfort.

Venus — Italian Denim Jeans
Italian denim relaxed fit bootcut jeans that sit at the natural waistline.

Tusk — Italian Denim Jeans
Sleek, ivory white wide bootleg jeans perfect for spring,

Deck — Italian Wide-Leg Trouser
Full-length, laidback indigo stretch denim that provides a tailored silhouette.

Suite — Italian Cotton Pants
Cloud-soft, ankle-length, classic fit stretchy high-waisted pants made for comfort and style.

More Wardrobe Inspiration at Your Fingertips. Shop these high-waisted pants and more on the website designed to help stylish women find their ideal wardrobe and the helpful people you need to make it all come together.

From easy online shopping to custom clothing boxes direct to your door, to a dedicated personal stylist to guide you, find everything you need for your fresh spring wardrobe all in one place.

25Feb

Pants During the Pandemic

February 25, 2021 Lots of Luxe

It’s time to get dressed up again!

Real pants have literally been closeted since 2020, but pants are making a comeback in 2021. Since the onset of the pandemic, you’ve probably been living in leggings, sweatpants, or yoga pants daily, thinking, “will I ever wear dress pants or jeans again?”

If you look back into time, the historical evolution of fashion during global hardships has been quite interesting. After WWI, women began to wear pants when they were called to enter the workforce. After the Spanish Flu Pandemic of 1918, began the Roaring 20s, which, was an iconic, liberating era in fashion. Now, we can relate to the flappers who just wanted to dress to the nines for a decadent night on the town after a period of being homebound!

Loungewear is our new normal, but what if we started getting dressed up again? Perhaps we’d feel better, more ourselves, or more productive.

Now, I don’t mean wearing anything uncomfortable at home. I’m talking about comfortable pants or denim that you look good in and feel good in.

Getting dressed and putting on real pants might make Zoom calls at home feel more professional and productive.
Getting dressed and feeling good can boost your spirits.
Wearing pants instead of leggings to the grocery store might promote a sense of normalcy.

The good news is, there are tons of comfy, soft pants that you can wear during the pandemic and start feeling really great! The following can be dressed up or kept casual. Pair these with cozy sweaters, chic blouses, or basic tees.

Satin Pants

Luxurious-feeling satin pants are perfect for staying home or going out. Comfortable, soft, and trendy, satin pants can be worn casually or jazzed up. Choose a pair with ankle ties so you can show off your footwear, too.

Stretchy Denim

Denim that stretches is the best of both worlds: the classic look of denim and the forgiving comfort of pants that stretch. Stretchy denim is one of the best ways to find jeans that fit like a glove, too. The stretchy material is perfect for cinching your waist and molding to your body while remaining suitable for staying home on the couch.

Pull-On Stretch Pants

Upgrade your yoga pants with pull-on stretch pants! Sleek stretch pants look professional, not to mention slimming, and you won’t be trading in any comfort. Look perfectly polished while you stay totally cozy.

Sleek Leggings

Leggings that look like pants are a chic way to take your quarantine look up a notch while remaining incredibly comfortable. These leggings are a classic wardrobe staple for at home or in the office.

Personal Styling For Busy Women

Have you neglected yourself lately? Busy women like you are struggling to juggle everything right now. Working from home, keeping up with the kids’ online schooling, and trying to create a balance while your family is largely stuck at home.

We take a backseat often, I know. But, there’s a way to indulge yourself in a beautiful wardrobe that makes you feel good without any compromise of time or energy.

The stylists at Lots of Luxe are here to help make that happen for you and with ease. Whether you choose to shop online or make a one-on-one virtual personal styling appointment, we’re available with style advice to ensure you get only what you need, what fits your personal style, and your budget.

Making yourself a priority has never been easier or more accessible with Lots of Luxe.

03Feb

Fashion Trends that Can’t be Ignored

February 3, 2021 Lots of Luxe

We love fashion and if you love fashion there is always interest and curiosity around the latest fashion trends. Here at Lots of Luxe, we like to focus on wearable trends. Trends that make sense for our personal style and wardrobe. In this blog post, we’re sharing some lovely fashion trends that are wearable and perfect for these early months of 2021.

Structured Bags

Structured handbags, specifically top-handle bags are trending. Elegant, polished structured bags add a touch of refinement to any of your looks. Dome satchels or ring-handled bags are a classic trend, really these don’t go out of style. For an extra fashionable touch, tie a delicate silk scarf to your structured bag and nail two trends at once.

Silky Scarves

Silk scarves, bandanas, and wraps are one chic trend. Use them however you wish, in your hair, around your handbag, or around your neck. Beautiful neutrals look wonderful when paired with a patterned scarf or wrap.

Chunky Chokers

If you love the look of chunky jewelry, you can find it everywhere now. Chunky necklaces, chokers, and earrings, especially gold, are very big. Chunky chains can give any outfit an edge, and chains can be incorporated into your look several different ways. If statement necklaces aren’t your thing, you can enjoy this trend by wearing a chain belt or even a chain-embellished handbag.

Elegant Elbow-Length Gloves

Nothing exudes elegance more than elbow-length, or “opera” gloves. If you love this trend and have been just dying to break out your fanciest pair, these are hot! Many fashion trends this year have been “borrowed” from decades past, including this comeback. If you happen to be attending a formal event (with social distancing built in, of course), opera gloves can be paired with a stately dress.

Riding Boots

It’s time to break out the boots! Playing into the western inspiration trends that we saw in the fall collections are riding boots. Boots of all kinds are a welcome fall and winter trend for many of us. This year, relatively flat-heeled, up to the knee boots are very popular. This looks sharp with a pair of skinny jeans or leggings. But, really, wear any of your favorite boots, you just can’t go wrong with a classic pair of boots.

Western-Inspired Accents

Along with riding boots, which have really turned into a fall/winter staple, other equestrian-inspired looks seem to be everywhere. You’ll see western-influenced belts, hats, and boots everywhere. From brimmed hats to fancy belt buckles to fringe, this trend can be one to add to your already classic neutrals.

Slim-Silhouette Sunglasses

Tiny sunglasses are everywhere right now, thanks to many models and celebrities bringing in the trend. Thin oval, rectangle, and cat-eye lenses are options if you want to try out this trend. Of course, if you don’t think thin frames suit your face, stick with the sunglasses you love.

Statement Earrings

Bold statement earrings are big, as well. If small, dainty studs are more your thing, don’t be afraid to try chunkier dangles. You’ll tend to see a lot of oversized pearls and gems in many statement earrings now and into the new year. Any kind of statement jewelry can really make an outfit pop.

Simple Suits

Let it be simple! Sometimes, the most stunning looks are the most simple. Chic suit basics are classic and always in style. Mix and match neutral polished blazers, collared shirts, turtlenecks, and bottoms for easy outfit options. Along with the simple suit trend, is to wear a tonal (solid color from head-to-toe) simple suit. Tonal dressing doesn’t mean all pieces have to be the exact same color, but they do need to be in the same “color family” and agreeable together. Check out what all the former FLOTUS wore to President Biden’s inauguration. Simple (except for current FLOTUS) tonal suiting.

Polished Patterns

To add some flair to your camel, cream, ivory, or black fall neutrals, add some of these season’s edgy patterns. Mixing your dreamy neutrals with classic tweed, tortoise, jacquard, or even animal print is a no-fail look that is always in style.

Busy Women Can Stay Up-To-Date on Trends, Too

Trendy clothes are fun and they can be a way to experiment with new looks.

If you would like to incorporate trending pieces into your wardrobe each season, the best way to stay up to date without all the fuss is to get a personal stylist on your side.

Keep your wardrobe fresh while staying as trendy or as classic as you like. Personal styling is all about you and your wardrobe wishes. Want to see how it works? Get in touch with a stylist to be in the know!

12Jan

Pantone’s Colors of the Year are Illuminating 2021

January 12, 2021 Lots of Luxe

Each year, Pantone chooses a color to represent the year’s upcoming trends in fashion, art, home décor, and the like. In December, Pantone chose two colors for the year 2021. After the miserable 2020 year we all experienced, I think we can all agree that we are hoping 2021 will be a brighter one. Pantone thought the same thing; therefore, they came up with 2 colors of the year. One to represent 2020 and one to represent 2021.

For 2021, Pantone picked the two colors of…Ultimate Gray and Illuminating.

Most view the color gray as a gloomy color, therefore Pantone chose Ultimate Gray, to represent the dismal 2020 that we just survived. Ultimate Gray is a neutral gray, smack dab in the middle of the gray shade spectrum. It’s not a dark gray, nor is it a light gray, but a neutral that can stand on its own or complement a brighter color. And to represent 2021, Pantone selected Illuminating, a funky, bright, happy yellow. Ultimate Gray and Illuminating can be paired to create a stunning color combination. Pantone rarely picks two colors of the year, but in 2021 we’re getting a 2-for-1 deal.

Gray and yellow are complementary soulmates, the kind of colors that match so well. The colors are better together than they are apart. Gray is sleek and formal, while bright yellow is eye-catching and vibrant. Here’s how to flawlessly wear Pantone’s Colors of the Year.

How to Wear Ultimate Gray

Gray is a neutral favorite. If your skin has cool undertones, nearly every shade of gray will flatter you. If you have warm undertones, be sure that Ultimate Gray doesn’t wash you out. But the good news is everyone can add Ultimate Gray to their wardrobe and look great. If you’re concerned about the color making your skin tone look dull, try gray pants instead of a top. Or add gray accessories.

Pair gray with other neutrals like black, white, or even nude. Monochromatic gray works well if you want to wear different shades of gray at the same time. Gray alone can seem a little dull, so if you desire pops of color, jewel tones look incredibly elegant with gray. Pair gray with royal blue, ruby, or striking purple. For more variety, you can also add different textures or bold prints to a gray outfit.

How to Wear Illuminating

Bright yellow is one of the most cheery colors, and it will help you get noticed! Bright yellow looks best on those with medium, olive, or dark complexions. Women with dark hair look especially good in bright yellow due to the contrasting colors. However, everyone can wear Illuminating if it’s done right! Even if you’re too shy to add bright yellow to your wardrobe, a vibrant yellow accessory will do the trick. Add a yellow bag, shoes, or accessories to brighten up your look.

How to Wear Ultimate Gray and Illuminating

Gray and yellow are often seen in home interiors, creating a fresh mix of colors that brighten up a room. In clothing, the pair are rarely put together. However, gray and yellow can be tastefully paired as they are a match made in heaven. Gray neutrals are a great start, and then we can add mood-boosting yellow into the mix with a yellow blazer, cardigan, shoes, or a statement necklace. If you have a yellow sundress or top, add gray for a complementary look. It’s that easy! Don’t be afraid to try this color combo as it’s sure to get noticed!

You’re Your Own Best Fashion Stylist

Women like you know what they want and what works for them. You already know what your preferences are and how your wardrobe should fit your lifestyle.

When it comes to finding assistance to build your dream wardrobe, finding a personal shopper, or a curated clothing box, you probably know what you want out of it. You’ll look for and find a brand that saves money, saves time, and offers the highest-quality clothing to fit your lifestyle.

Even during the pandemic, Lots of Luxe offers the guidance you want for your wardrobe and styling needs. You’ll be happy to know that when you need it, virtual consultations are always available.

23Dec

How to Wear a White Shirt

December 23, 2020 Lots of Luxe

Create Dozens of Outfits with this Versatile Closet Essential

Let’s talk about one of the greatest wardrobe-essentials. A classic, chic piece that every woman needs (at least one of) in her wardrobe. Perhaps the most versatile article of clothing you could own.

The white shirt.

A white shirt can go from jeans and sneaker pairings while running errands to a stylish night out when paired with black leather pants and heels. The same crisp white shirt can be paired with work pants or casual denim. White shirts can truly adapt in any situation, so I have to say that I recommend every woman has at least one white shirt she loves, if not more!

Here’s how to rock this wardrobe staple at work, date night, and beyond.

How to Wear a White Shirt For Work

I can’t begin these work outfit suggestions without noting a crisp white button-down and a blazer is endlessly chic and always in style.

For work, wear a white shirt with a pants suit, a blazer, and jeans, or with a pencil or a pleated skirt. Wearing a white shirt that peeks out from a sweater or vest is also clean-cut and classic. Collared white shirts are perfect for work, but of course, several styles can easily be worn in a professional setting. White shirts are classic, go with truly anything, and look immediately professional. The greatest thing is, if you buy white shirts for the office, they can work no matter the season. You’ll have a tried and true staple for creating polished work outfits.

Add polished accessories to complete your look.

How to Wear a White Shirt For a Night Out

The chameleon of clothing can go from a chic work outfit to something perfect for a night out.

Oversized white button-downs or longer white tunics can be paired with leggings or skinny jeans, with your choice of shoes. You can get creative with a white shirt by tying it at the waist or belting it. White shirts can even be worn over a slip dress or maxi dress.

Fitted white shirts can be tucked into jeans or pants for a more polished look. Of course, in the colder months, white shirts are great for layering.

Don’t forget to play with accessories. The right hat or statement necklace can completely transform an outfit.

How to Wear a White Shirt While Traveling

Travel is on hold for now, but it’s good to remember that white shirts are a traveler’s best friend. Packing a few white shirts can make it easy to create more outfits while packing less.

You can wear a white shirt with shorts and slip-on sneakers. Long white shirts can be used as a bathing suit coverup while on the beach or by the pool. Or, try wearing one with a maxi skirt.

If you’re headed to a colder vacation spot, white shirts are great layered or under sweaters. White shirts can be buttoned over a tank top or t-shirt, or worn with a sleeveless dress.

White shirtdresses are versatile and can be dressed up or down on vacation.

When choosing white shirts for travel, knits are a great wrinkle-free choice, as are no-iron white shirts. Banish wrinkles with steaming, and you’re good to go!

Need Help With Finding More Closet Essentials?

Closet versatility is a must for any busy woman. When your closet is versatile, you can easily mix and match outfits effortlessly. The white shirt is a classic must-have for creating countless outfits from casual to elegant. And for travel, this is a must, so pack white shirts for many outfit creations for the next time you’re on vacation for work or play.

If you’re wondering how you can add white shirts that flatter your figure into your wardrobe or need help creating effortless outfits, schedule a consultation at your convenience.

If you need additional help creating a wardrobe of essentials that make dressing easier, Lots of Luxe has many helpful services from personal shopping to wardrobe styling.

The last thing any woman needs is to fret over her wardrobe. Getting dressed should be one of the easiest parts of your day.

29Oct

The Art of Minimalism: The Famous Wardrobe Organization Strategy that Will “Spark Joy”

October 29, 2020 Lots of Luxe

There are so many closet organization strategies, but recently, a decluttering queen has become quite famous for introducing us to her method for a complete closet overhaul.

If you haven’t heard of the decluttering queen Marie Kondo, she is a tidying expert who has shared her method for organizing that has become a sensation.

With Marie’s method, you ask yourself “does this spark joy?” and you only keep possessions that spark joy within you.

If we apply this to our wardrobes, you will be left with only the clothes you love and wear, and everything else will go. With this method, your entire wardrobe will spark joy every day, making it easier for you to define your style and effortlessly put together outfits.

Ms. Kondo’s minimalist method called the KonMari method can bring you the confidence to organize your closet and get rid of anything that no longer serves a purpose for you.

What Does it Mean to “Spark Joy?”

According to the KonMari method, look at each piece of clothing, accessories, handbags, etc. and ask yourself, “does this [insert object here] spark joy?”

If it does spark joy, you keep it, if it doesn’t, you lovingly toss it or donate it. We can easily know what sparks joy for us, because you will be instantly aware of how much you love a certain purse or pair of shoes, just like the first day you bought them. But, if you feel indifferent, you’ll know right away.

Maybe you have dozens of items that you begrudgingly wear but they don’t spark joy, so it’s time to let them go and keep and wear only what you L-O-V-E!

It might seem daunting to look into your closet and decide to get rid of everything that doesn’t “spark joy” but if you do it, the process is easy, and afterward your entire closet will spark joy. Now, that sounds fantastic!

The Steps to Sparking Joy

When applying the KonMari method to our closets, there are some essential recommendations from the organization expert.

1. Fully Commit to the Organization Process

You might start by scheduling a day to begin your organization journey or set up an appointment with a wardrobe stylist to assist you with the hard decisions. Know that organization is refreshing and can be the start of a new you. Especially while the seasons are changing, committing to getting rid of old clothes that don’t fit can feel really rewarding.

2. Imagine Your Ideal Lifestyle When Organizing Your Wardrobe

Do you know how to define your personal style? When you begin the organization process, it’s good to have an idea in mind about the types of items you want to keep. Luckily, with the KonMari method, asking if each item sparks joy is an easy way to figure it out. When you’re done, you’ll have a closet full of clothes you absolutely love.

3. Decide What Sparks Joy

Sort through your closet and while looking at and holding each item, decide if it sparks joy. If it does, you automatically keep it, of course!

Anything that doesn’t immediately spark joy, will be kept in a separate pile. According to Marie, she recommends saying “thank you” to the unwanted item and give it away in gratitude. This can make the separation process a lot easier for many people. Have gratitude for the pieces that no longer spark joy and resell them online or donate them, bringing joy to another woman who will love them.

A third pile can be for things you are unsure about. You can go back to them and reassess your feelings about them. After you’ve made your “joy” pile and “donation” pile, it will be easier to determine how you feel about the items in the “uncertain” pile.

4.Organize By Category

Now that you have clothes that only spark joy, you can easily organize and enjoy a clutter-free closet full of the clothes that make you feel your absolute best.

Need Extra Wardrobe Help?

While Marie Kondo’s minimalist method is very helpful, you might worry about doing it alone. So, that’s where a professional wardrobe stylist can assist your organizing efforts. Everything is easier when you have an expert by your side. If you feel overwhelmed, get in touch with us today!

17Sep

The Key to Easy Outfits is Mastering Monochromatic Dressing

September 17, 2020 Lots of Luxe

Want to make dressing easier with one simple step? Try your hand at monochromatic dressing for a surprisingly stylish look with little effort.

If you struggle with getting dressed every morning, you might be tempted to try anything to change that. There is an effortless way to look chic every day, and that is using monochromatic looks.

The good news is, you probably already have plenty of outfits to start with, and you might not even know it. You might be wondering what I mean by a monochromatic look, and simply put, it’s all about wearing separates of the same color, but with different textures and tones for some flair. You might think the same color from head to toe is dull, but au contraire! Monochromatic dressing can be incredibly chic and powerful.

Here’s how to create a monochromatic look the next time you step into your closet. You might surprise yourself with how simple this is!

When picking out a monochromatic outfit, start with what you already have. Decide which colors you have most in your wardrobe. If you already organize your closet by color, you are a step ahead! After seeing what you have in the same colors, you can mix and match; creating outfits, you may not have thought to put together. You can choose seasonal colors or neutrals, whatever works for you!

White/Cream

“No White After Labor Day” rule be damned, it doesn’t exist anymore. Wearing monochromatic white or cream is done by wearing the lightest tones of white or cream at the bottom and similar hues in the same color family, be it the identical cream/white color, oatmeal, or taupe colors on the top. Wearing cream, taupe, and oatmeal colors top-to-bottom will give a monochromatic look a bit more depth.

Black

If you decide to wear monochromatic black, having all the same shade of black will elongate your silhouette, and you will appear taller and slimmer. This is also true for navy and browns. For many women, this is exciting news! But, it’s essential to add some excitement to the outfit. This can be done with different textures or delicate patterns. You can also add pops of color with a scarf or handbag.

Gray

You can definitely wear all gray (or any neutral). Gray can look classic and chic. If you want to try a monochromatic look but don’t want to try bold colors, gray is an excellent place to start. There are so many shades of gray, and silver tones can be integrated too.

Try Sticking with One Color Family

Many people might shy away from wearing a bold color from head to toe, but it can be done. Just like with all black, sticking to any one color can elongate and slim you. Monochromatic looks can be done with jewel tones, neutrals, or a “color family.” The key is to keep all your separates in the same color palette. Don’t be afraid to experiment with monochromatic looks!

Add a Pop of Color

If you want to break up a monochromatic outfit with a pop of color, you can! Adding a brightly colored accessory can make it pop. While your outfit will remain a visual relief from patterns and colors, a bright accessory can add some interest. Add a hat, handbag, or outerwear in a different color than your outfit. A great necklace or bracelet and earrings with color can be a great way to add that pop-of-color, too.

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If you need an opinion or want a wardrobe stylist to help you create a monochromatic look (or any look), we are available. If you aren’t sure about a particular look, a second opinion from an expert eye is helpful. If dressing is a struggle, we have so many solutions available, from wardrobe styling to personal shopping to a Box of Luxe. If you want to see how it works, reach out for a consultation. See you soon!

27Aug

Size Isn’t Standard

August 27, 2020 Lots of Luxe

Body Positive Changes to Finding Clothes that Fit

Women have cursed their size for decades. Some decades have been worse on us than others (think the gaunt models of the 90s when anything more than super thin was out), and thankfully we’ve made some progress on how we view women’s bodies. Lately, the media shows a variety of shapes, from petite to full-figured, and models are more diverse than they ever have been. Still, worrying about size is a common problem for women. If we aren’t a particular size, we feel bad.

It’s safe to say that most women have worries about their size, whether it be “comparisonitis” with other women or how personal size stacks up with the “ideals” we see in the media. There is no shortage of women who are not happy with their clothing, size or visiting the fitting rooms. I think it’s time to change that!

Here’s the thing: It’s less about your size and more about fit. Let’s emphasize a good fit over a number that comes on the tag. When women wear well-fitting clothes, they feel good about themselves, regardless of size!

Clothing size is merely a number, a measurement. It has no emphasis on how kind, funny, or astonishingly beautiful you are. Size cannot quantify your beauty and worth. Let size be just a number and focus on how you feel instead.

One thing that can help you achieve feeling good in your clothes is connecting some valuable words to your personal style. What is your truth when it comes to your style? Is it cool, posh, outrageous, iconic, luxurious, or striking?

Here’s what to ask yourself: What words do I want to attribute to my personal style?

As I write this, I am reminded just how powerful words are. Having powerful words assigned to the clothing you wear gives your personal style definition that you can rely on when putting outfits together or purchasing new items each season.

This idea is an inspiration from Brenda Kinsel, who has written about her search for the perfect sized jacket. She finally narrowed it down to a petite medium, after trying on a few sizes, saying, “And you know how I knew it was the right size for me? The standard-sized jackets felt dowdy on me. I wouldn’t have bought it. I’m a spunky, spirited kind of gal, and dowdy isn’t in my style vocabulary. When I got to the petite medium, it felt just right.”

Brenda makes an excellent point here. If your personal style is defined as “spunky,” for example, then anything “dowdy” just can’t be right for you!

Want some more tips? Here are five tips for nailing your personal style and focusing on fit, not size.

1. People notice when you look and feel good, and size is irrelevant. Size is for you (and your personal stylist) to know. Nobody else knows or cares for that matter. When you walk into a room as your-best-dressed-self, you get noticed regardless of your size. That’s why focusing on fit is so much more important. When clothes fit, you know it, and you feel good. You’ll also attract a lot of compliments. Fit is more important than any number.

2. When you wear clothes that fit, you are much more comfortable AND your confidence level immediately goes up. Comfortable fitting clothes allows you to relax, be yourself, and focus on more important things. Time spent tugging and pulling on ill-fitting clothes is time wasted. Don’t waste your time trying to fit into the clothes. Instead, concentrate on how well your clothes fit and watch how you’ll have an extra pep in your step.

3. Remember that size is often relative. Have you ever been one size in a store and a totally different size in another? Clothing sizes for women fluctuate from designer to designer. Some designers’ silhouettes might run small and others larger. Clothing size varies a lot, so don’t be so hard on yourself. If clothing size isn’t even down to a science, then it shouldn’t be fretted over! Even if you think you’re sure of your size, it’s always a good idea to take two or three sizes into the fitting room, so you can decide which fit feels best.

4. Your body changes a lot. Give yourself some credit for being a woman, first and foremost. Over the years, our bodies change, and therefore, clothing sizes change. Even if your weight has been the same for years, our bodies can suddenly hold weight in different areas, or water weight can be a culprit in tightly fitting clothes. Cut yourself some slack because this is normal, and it happens to every body. If anything doesn’t fit you anymore, it’s time to consign it or donate it! You get to buy new clothes that fit right and make you feel wonderful while another woman will get to enjoy your previously-loved clothing.

5. Fashion changes and so do sizes. That has nothing to do with you or your body. Designers change the way clothes fit and fashion trends can change the way things fit on us. Once again, find clothes that fit your body without worrying too much about the numbers.

Finding Clothes that Fit With a Personal Stylist

Finding clothes that fit can be a frustrating task for many women. But it doesn’t have to be. If you need help implementing the tips above, we’re always available. Sometimes, finding clothes that fit and make you feel great can be accomplished by using professionals, from tailors to wardrobe stylists. If you need help finding clothes that always make you feel fabulous, contact us for a consultation.

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